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Lucas and Jon show what grooming behavior can look like, how it can feel, and how to see your way out of it. It can be your boss or someone who you think as a friend and mentor.
I wanted to share my story. It might not be that problematic, but i have no one to talk to about this. It doesnt matter if anyone sees this or not, i just want to share mine. Its long, because idk how to make short ones
Back when covid19 started, i started to learn about social media by my mom. She knows i love interacting so she teaches me how to. That time, i was still in 5th grade. I live social media. I like to share my daily live, random photos about me or sharing my drawings, either digital or traditional. People would be at my dms, thats how i interacted with them. I like to roleplay that time, like those gacha family, mafia, all sorts of imagination. Some would dm me, being my friend, and play games with them like roblox and cod. And its great. Since then, more people come to my dms, either the same age as mine or old, but usually the old one that i ignore. But i cant, because i thought they need children to talk to them in a good way. Ive forgotten how many guys, married man and old man tries to hit me up, depsite knowing my age. Theyll send me photos, and asks me for photos as well. Remember what i say, i was still in 5th grade. I dont want to tell my mom, because i saw a guy doing the same thing and she was smiling. I thought it was normal. But all i send is just my face. Well, sometimes my body, of course with clothes. Actually, because ive forgotten, i dont even know if i sent the one that i have clothes or not. It was then after i started to asks my online friends and they said that they were "online grooming" me. I dont understand. They told me it was bad and ask me what i did. How would i know? I explain it to them and after some time, i understand. Then after understanding, i go back to the guys and confront them. They said i was wrong, i might be young, but if i realized it was wrong, it is. I blocked them, but they came using other accounts. They even have my best friend's body photo, and black mailed me if i kept blocking him, he'll post it. I was scared, but I kept blocking him. He then sent me a photo of my house and my family. I was very terrified. Thats when i started to tell my mom, she was shocked, she blame that i dont tell her, but in the end, his account got reported. And she tought me that it was wrong. And just report them and block them if they keep coming. And if i remember, 3 guys, 1 old man, 2 anonymous guy. Thats when i started to stop using social media. My friends never understand why i dont want to use social media, despite explaining it to them, but thats alright. But i didnt experience it online only, i experienced it real life too. He was my driver. That time is when the covid is getting better and people can go to school but with mask. I always sits at the front, because i like to talk to people. I was wearing school gym outfit. It was tight, but maybe thats what caught his attention. While on the road, i was talking to him as usual. He then outs his hand on my thigh and caress. I was confused. I got triggered to the grooming that i experience online. But this is different for me. I couldnt report this person or block him, i mean, its not online. Plus, hes someone that my family knows and trusted. He then looked at me and say "hold mine." I dont understand. But i know that is wrong. He then unbuckle and told me how to do it. Its scary. Im scared. I want to go to school. Not this. I was paranoid. He then stops to a place that i dont know and power off my phone. And thats when it happens. When i go back to school, i was holding my pain. It hurts. I opened my phone and tell my mom. I dont know how to word it. And i know mom trust him. So i was scared but tell her. She doesnt believe me. She told me that he was a great person. I try to tell others and all the answers are the same. I quit. She told me to keep my attitude and just be with the driver. Plus, the bus isnt available that time so all i can do is nod, but since then, i sit at the back, and it doesnt happen to me anymore. Everytime he tries to talk to me, all i think is about that incident. Its horrible. Then, for months, he hasnt touched me and the bus is available now. The driver overed my mom a cost that is kich cheaper than the bus, but i kept telling my mom i dont want to. And now ive been going with bus. Life has been better.
you really hurt me i havent been able to have a good nights rest in so long because of you, you took advantage of my innocence because you were unhappy with yourself ill never be the same you made me hate myself ill never forgive you
The worst thing is victims of this type of abuse Can be shamed and attacked by the people around them But don't be afraid and speak out, law protects you
Notice how they portray grooming in a religious context in order to attack its reputation to manipulate how the masses perceive it, even though public schools are where most of the molestation happens. Sexual purity isn't practiced in public schools, they are depraved and utterly filthy. They are the ones with the drag queen pedophiles been shown off to children, and yet people are not able to distinguish the clear likely-hood of an institution that practices sexual purity would have less sexual offenders than one that doesn't? It's a calculated manipulation.
I was groomed at 9 years old (I think?) on a Discord server. I will never forget that day. Man I was crying so much it gave me so much trauma. I KNEW he was older then me and that’s how it’s all my fault for tangling with that fool. I thought I was smart but I’m just a stupid brat. I just wanted to live a normal fun life but I will never feel the same way again… it has truly affected me. Even though I know I’ll recover, the thought of it makes me very uncomfortable and sad.😔
I believe the idea what differentiates in women doing something like that and men doing something like that is often seen differently since by society men are seen as more powerful and are able to fight back, yes that may be true but the thing is, you often tend to panic and just stop thinking in sudden situations that happen too quickly for your brain to process, even then most people tend to think that every guy wants that anyway, so what would happen if I said every girl wanted that? yeah, I'd be cancelled immediately, but if it's about a guy who's experiencing this, oh no, everybody will laugh it off.
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